ALSY PERS

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A white ray comes through her window.
Suddenly, tears on her pillow.
Flowing, without knowing,
Exploding, without soaking.


Brooding in the middle of the night,
Looking up with her eyesight,
Staring at the starlight,
Pointing to the moonlight,
Hearing river which flows in delight,
Noticing the sound  bite,
Coming the white knight,
Being her limelight,
Realizing she’s alright,
With her own sight,
With her own right.

With Her Own Right

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Breathe in
Breathe out
In the humid air
With a light mist
Nice pace...
Oh, twinge in knee!
Mist feels good~
I'm running
In the cool morning
The sun is shining
Birds are chirping
Flowers are blooming
Squirrels are scurrying
Tal tap tap - My steps
13,1 Miles ~
Dug dug dug - Beats fast
Sweet smiles
My sights -
Are on the court
"TWO SHOTS!"
Woah, what amazing shots!
This is such,
Keep my mind off why I am running
I'm not realize how much,
I will end up enjoying running

13,1 Miles

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When the yellow leaves suddenly fall,
Do you know why they fall?
Do you know why they leave their world?
Do you know their feeling?
Don't you know that Allah notices them?

When the sky goes blur,
Do you know why it blurs?
Do you know why it's not as happy as the blue sky?
Do you know its' feeling?
Don't you know that Allah manages them?

And when my eyes were blurred with tears,
Do you know why it happens?
Do you know every of my silence that describes another pain?
Do you know my feeling?
Verily, Allah will make me happy,


in shaa Allah.. :"))

The Blurring Sky

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Back with that feel
That it is real,
That i am alone here.
...
..
.
No one walks through my mind.
I feel the emptiness , the darkness blind.
No one talks to me 
That this world seems to be
Rude.
...
..
.
What a quiet night,
When the wind blows my sight,
That in my vision everything is gone,
With the moonlight's bone.
...
..
.
How i feel so alone
That i am isolated in the middle of crowd
How i feel so down
That i am ...
That i am ...
That


Am...

.L.o.n.e.l.y.

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What?
Ugh... this is the only thing
That always makes me feel everything
But oh, what a but!
Can't forget that, oh lust
Because it's something in my little world
And something too, in my whole world
That always plays on my mind
And riddles my brain... XD

Blah.. T.T

I often *blank* when you draw near by me
Can't say everything, but feels like a bee
Can't stare it, but heart beats too quick
Like a precious moment and a trick

LOL huh (?)
It's kinda funny
That so much words unspoken
It's kinda awkward
That so much silence between us

I'm so scared of looking at you
I'm sorry, I'm not perfect
I might not be the best, but...
there's always a reason, that's you,
And there's always a river, that flows in you...


......
《The photo is my old drawing , and so is this poem.. this is my very old poem that i wrote this when i was on 8th grade . XD 》

Secret Admirer

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One Day
Say it someday
That we'll face it another day
And another way

We do the essay
That determine our new moves
Like a wind blows
Roaming, and no one knows
Roving, and may transposes
But there are always rhapsodies
That tickles our senses
And touches our hearts
Like sparkling eyes
With excitements

One Day
Happy, unhappy,
Joyful, sorrowful,
Blessed, depressed,
Are always there!
But it gives us a reason to smile today
And a hope for tomorrow

.....
《Photo taken in Cangu, Bali》
Actually this is my old poem, hehehe...
But I just want to post my poems in my blog! :D

One Day

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Beach, my favorite place to have holiday
Beach, my beloved place to begin making a poem of joy
I feel the warm air
I watch the blue water
I look at the open sky
I stand up on big stones
I smell steamy salt, shell, and sweet

I can see,
People do selfie,
People enjoy the scenery,
Children are happy,
With their building castle perfectly,
And their joining hands, with their family...


This gives me a massage of nature
Her words are soft and kind
and her gesture is rich in symbolism
That we need to attune ourselves
to the world around us to feel-
and to understand its subtle nuances


From the beach, I wonder with His creations
How small I seem to be walking
at the extremely wide beach is
and at the extremely big stones
And how I feel so alone standing amidst
the infinite expanse of the ocean
Thank you, Yaa Allah...


.......

《Photo taken in Kute beach》
Actually, this is my old poem. I posted this late. My poem was written because i felt so deep visiting beaches...

At The Beach

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*All good manners are delivered from 4......*

An-Nawawi writes:

_The Imam Al-Khaleel Abu Muhammad Abdullah ibn Abu Zaid, the leader of the Maliki scholars in the West in his time, said that all good manners are derived from four traditions._

Source: Sharh Sahih Muslim

πŸ‘‰These four traditions are the following:

1. _Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:_

*Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak goodness or remain silent.*

Source: Sahih Muslim 47, Grade: Sahih

We have been commanded to speak good words or remain silent.

 It is not permissible to use the tongue for bad purposes like telling lies, slander, gossip, curses, profanity, or abuse.

πŸ‘‰If we apply this tradition, we will be saved from the sins of the tongue by which many people enter Hellfire.

2  _Ali ibn Hussein reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:_

*Verily, from the perfection of Islam is that a person leaves what does not concern him.*

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2318, Grade: Sahih

We have been commanded to leave what does not concern us and to mind our own business.

 It is not permissible to gossip, repeat everything we hear without verification, spy on others, seek out people’s faults, or to busy ourselves with matters beyond our concern.

πŸ‘‰ If we apply this tradition, we will make the most of our time and avoid violating the privacy and honor of others.

3. _Abu Huraira reported: A man came to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and said, “Advise me.” The Prophet said:_

Ω„َΨ§ ΨͺَΨΊْΨΆَΨ¨ْ

*Do not get angry.*

The man repeated his request twice and the Prophet said:

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*Do not get angry.*

Source: Sahih Bukhari 5765, Grade: Sahih

We have been commanded to control our anger and to avoid acting impulsively.

 It is not permissible to allow anger to be the cause of transgression, aggression, oppressing others, harboring rancor in our hearts, or envying others.

πŸ‘‰If we apply this tradition, we will be saved from the innumerable sins caused by losing control of our anger.

4. _Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:_

*None of you will have faith until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.*

Source: Sahih Bukhari 13, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

We have been commanded to love for each other what we love for ourselves and to treat each other the way we would love to be treated.

We should have a desire and intention to benefit others and to love good for them.

We should not hold any malice towards others or have an intention to harm others.

πŸ‘‰If we apply this tradition, Allah will honor us on the Day of Resurrection in the same way that we treated others well in this life.

_*From these four prophetic traditions are derived the foundations of all good character and manners in Islam.*_

_We should strive to apply these four traditions and thereby achieve a blessed rank among the righteous in the Hereafter._

Success comes from Allah, and Allah knows best.

Good Manners

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After a conference on cancer prevention

* Some interesting points *
1. No to refined oil
2. No to milks of animal origin (nido.)
3. No to cubes
4. No to the consumption of the gasified juices of the different breweries (32 pieces of sugar per liter)
5. No refined sugars
6. No Microwave
7. No to mammography before delivery but echomamaire
8. No to too tight bras or after returning to work
9. No alcohol
10. No for reheating frozen meals
11. No to the conservation of water in the refrigerator in plastic bottles ...
12. All contraceptive pills are not good because they change the woman's hormonal system and give cancer.
13. Deodorants are dangerous especially used after shaving.
14. Cancer cells eat mainly sugar, everything is synthetic sugar even brown.
15. A cancer patient who suppresses sugar in his diet sees his disease regressed and can live long: sugar = deadly enemy.
16. A glass of beer is made 5 hours in the body and during this time the organs of the system are operating at idle speed.

* Yes to: *

1. Vegetables
2. Honey in measured quantities in place of sugar
3. Vegetable proteins such as beans versus meat
4. Two glasses of water on an empty stomach before brushing teeth, water kept in the room having the same temperature as we woke up
5. Unheated Meals
6. Anti cancer juice: aloe vera + ginger + parsley + celery + promaline (middle of the pineapple) mix and drink on an empty stomach.
7. Other anti-cancer juice: corossol (seedless) + promaline.
8. Eat the raw or cooked carrot or juice each day.

* Just to share info *
The association of American doctors has given answers to the cause of cancer
1. Do not drink tea in a plastic cup (cup).
2. Do not eat anything hot in a paper or plastic bag. Example: potato (fried).
3. Do not cook microwavable foods using plastic material

As a reminder :
When plastic is in contact with heat, this creates chemicals that can cause 52 types of cancer.

This message is better than 100 unnecessary SMS.
Inform your loved ones in order to be free from these effects.

⚠ Avoid drinking Coca Cola on pineapple or after you have eaten pineapple as a dessert.
Do not mix pineapple juice with Coca.
This mixture is deadly! People are dying there and they mistakenly believe that they were poisoned .... They were victims of their ignorance of this fatal cocktail!

Sms to share with loved ones.
May God preserve us
* Please reads and transmits. *

Dr. Richard from the United States.
Important Health Tips:

πŸ‘‰ Answer calls to the left ear.
πŸ‘‰ Do not take your medication with cold water ....
πŸ‘‰ Do not eat heavy meals after 5 pm.
πŸ‘‰ Drink more water in the morning, less at night.
πŸ‘‰ Do not lie down immediately after taking medication or after meals.
πŸ‘‰ When your phone's battery is low at the last bar, do not answer the phone, because the radiation is 1000 times more powerful.
πŸ‘‰ Can you pass this on to the people you love?
I just did it, kindness costs us nothing ...

Cancer Prevention

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Assalaamu'alaikum
Please Read this Hadith for the sake of Allah:

 *A traveler* once came to the masjid to see the *Prophet Muhammad* (S.A.W) after greeting the *Prophet* (S.A.W), he was asked where he was from. The *traveler* replied that he came from very far just to get a few questions answered.
Following is the dialogue between the *traveler* and the *Prophet* (S.A.W).
*Traveler* : I do not want
punishments to be written in my account.
*Prophet* : Behave well with your parents
*Traveler* : I want to be known amongst people as an intelligent person.
*Prophet* : Fear Allah (Jalla Jalalu),always.
*Traveler* : I want to be counted amongst Allah's favourites.
*Prophet* : Recite Quran every morning and evening.
*Traveler* : I want my heart to always be enlightened.
*Prophet* : Never forget death.
*Traveler* : I never want to be away from Allah's blessing.
*Prophet* : Always treat fellow creatures well.
*Traveler* : I never want to be harmed by my enemies.
*Prophet* : Always have faith in Allah.(Only)
*Traveler* : I never want to be humiliated.
*Prophet* : Be careful of your actions.
*Traveler* : I wish to live long.
*Prophet* : Always do Goodness towards blood Relations
*Traveler* : I want my sustenance to increase.
*Prophet* : Always be in wudhoo.
*Traveler* : I wish to stay free of punishment in the grave.
*Prophet* : Always wear pure clothes.
*Traveler* : I never want to be burnt in hell.
*Prophet* : Control your eyes and tongue.
*Traveler* : How do I get my sins forgiven?
*Prophet* : Always ask forgiveness from Allah with
a lot of humility.
*Traveler* : I want people to respect me always.
*Prophet* : Never extend your hands of need at people.
*Traveler* : I want to always be honored.
*Prophet* : Never humiliate or put down anyone.
*Traveler* : I don't want to be squeezed by Qabr.(Squeezing in the grave)
*Prophet* : Recite Surat Al Mulk (The Dominion)often.
*Traveler* : I want my wealth to increase.
*Prophet* : Recite surat Al Waqiah (The Inevitable) every night.
*Traveler* : I want to be safe and at peace on Day of Judgment.
*Prophet* : Do zikr (Praises) of Allah from dusk to night.
*Traveler* : I want to be in full
attention & concentration during prayers.
*Prophet* : Always do wudhoo with concentration and attention.
*Kindly* do forward to all Muslims & Allah Will reward you Insha'Allah..
Sharing of Knowledge is
*Sadaqatul-Jaariyah* for you & me and you will receive thawab for all those who will read it Insha 'Allah.

A Traveler's Questions

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When I complain about the taste of my food🍜
 I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who used to fasten some stones on his stomach to hold on his hunger

When I complain about how less clothes I have πŸ‘•
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who had only two pieces of clothes for the rest of His life

When I complain of how uncomfortable my bed is🏠
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who slept on the palm frond and coarse cloth in his entire life

When I become so miser to give and share with others..
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who used to give his everything that he almost left nothing for himself

When I think of how poor I amπŸ’°
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who loved the poor so much and said to be with them in jannah, it cheers me up

When I'm upset of those who hurt me😒
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who had mercy on those who did evil to Him

When I think of those who hate meπŸ˜’
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who always prayed for those who had insulted Him

When people don't thank me for what I do😨
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who reminded me that the best reward is from Allah
 side

When none loves me..
I remember that I have Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
who loves me for thousand years

When I think of how miserable my life is..
I remember Him
Muhammad ο·Ί
 who had more struggle life than mine, and it strengthens me

May peace be upon Him, my beloved
May peace be upon Him, my role model
May peace be upon Him,
 My Rasool Allah Muhammad ο·Ί
May peace be upon Him  He's the best example
 for our lives!.... πŸ€πŸŒ·

Above is one of the Best Ever Message I have Received.
Kindly circulate this in ur friend circle and other groups...

Remember The Uswatun Hasanah!

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*Signs of Matured Muslims*
✅ They speak the truth at all times
✅ They are good listeners
✅ They hardly take offense
✅ They are quick to forgive
✅ They are reliable
✅ They are supportive
✅ They have appetite for prayer and fasting
✅ They rely on the Word of God
✅ The more God lifts them up, the more they become humble
✅ They hardly defend themselves
✅ They are quick to repent
✅ They seek peace and pursue it
✅ They love people and they are compassionate
✅ They know when to talk and when to be quiet
✅ They are full of wisdom in many aspects of life
✅ They respect people and are very sensitive to people's feelings
✅ They have a lot of patience and they are not short tempered
✅ They fear God
✅ They give honour where it is due
✅ They are content with what they have
✅ They have good leadership skills
✅ They are hospitable
✅ They are not carried away by all kinds of teachings
✅ They are good followers
✅ They have a sacrificial spirit
✅ They don't gossip and look down on people
✅ They have faith
✅ They take part in mosque activities and attend mosque regularly
✅ They are clean in every aspect of life
✅ Their spirits are sensitive, they hate sin
✅ They don't act holier than others
✅ They don't compete with others

*Ask yourself: Am I a matured Muslim?*πŸ”¦
May God give us the grace to identify and work on our weak areas.        Please join me to forward it.

Signs of Matured Muslim

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►Benefits of Ayatul Kursiyyu:

►1. Recite while Leaving your House, And 70,000 Angels Will Protect
You from All sides.

►2. Recite On Entering your Home, And Poverty Won't Enter your Home.

►3. Recite After ablution, And It Raises You 70 Times In Allah's Rank.

►4. Recite Before Sleeping, And 1 Angel Will Protect You The Whole
Night.

►5. Recite After obligatory prayers, And The Only Thing That Is Separating You From Paradise Is Death.

►If you pass this on, It is Sadaqatul
Jaria. (meaning you keep on getting rewarded for it, every time
someone acts upon it even when
you have died, until the day of
judgment).

►Please, Don't Forget To Share, I have done mine by sharing the knowledge with you.

►Please even if You will not read, just FORWARD it.

►Astaghfirullah!

►Astaghfirullah!

►Astaghfirullah!  3x

►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel.
►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel.
►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel.
►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel.
►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel.
►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel.
►Hasbunallahu wa ni'imal wakeel. 7x

►After reciting your's, now forward it.

►In few minutes, millions will have said it.

►You have got nothing to lose so pass on...

Benefits of Ayatul Kursi

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πŸ”΄THINGS TO BE AVOIDED DURING RAMADAAN
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1. Don't sleep during the day and pray all night. By doing this you are converting the day into night and the night into day, which is not the purpose of fasting.

2. Avoid being lazy and inactive during the day.

3. Don't waste time playing games during the day. Rather, please Allah by increasing in your worship of him.

4. Avoid having Iftar parties. Ramadan wasn't meant to be a food extravaganza.

5. Dont ask your wife to spend Ramadan in the Kitchen. Eat something light and quick - she isn't Biryani woman.

6. Spend the last 10 days worshipping Allah rather than trying to prepare for Eid! A day that is better than a thousand months is in these last 10 days. You can't afford to miss this.

7. Dont stay awake the full night. Your body has a right over you, and when it wants rest, then rest.

8. Avoid excessive socialising after Taraweeh

9. Avoid shopping a lot in Ramadhaan.

10. Dont eat the full night.

11. Dont loiter around at night rather than worshipping Allah.

12. Eid doesnt require loads of preparation. Dont fall into this trap! Keep it simple, and it will be blessed.

May we witness this forthcoming Ramadan with sound health -
Aameen....

Common mistakes in Ramadhan:

1. Drinking
Milkshakes made with syrups etc on a daily basis

- Why: It contains high amounts of sugar, additives  and colourants
- Solution: If you have to, drink it twice a week maximum


2. Drinking large amounts of water at iftaar time

- Why: Filling the stomach with water is more strenuous to it than with food.
- Solution: have a few sips at iftaar then a glass after every two hours.


3. Exercising directly after iftaar.

- Why: the body's blood flow is concentrated around the stomach at that time.
- Solution: Exercise after two hours of eating to ease digestion.


4. Chewing and swallowing food fast.

- Why: chewing food slowly can speed up digestion and help maintain your weight


5. Having dessert directly after iftaar

- Why: they make you drowsy and sleepy
- Solution: leave at least a two hour gap between iftaar and dessert to stay fresh and awake for ishaa and taraweeh prayers

6. Consuming foods with high amounts of sodium

- Why: Sodium triggers thirst through out the fasting hours of the day
- Solution: instead, eat foods that are high in potassium, they retain water and supress your thirst.


# Bananas are high in potassium. A banana at Suhoor time can control your thirst level through out the day.

# Best sources of potassium for Suhoor time:
 - bananas
 - milk
 - dates
 - avocados
 - dried peaches
 - pistachios
 - pumpkin
 - peas
 - dark chocolate

# Worst choices for Suhoor:
 - biryani
 - kebab
 - pizza
 - fast food in general
 - cheese
 - haleem

# Best choices for Suhoor:
 - potato
 - rice
 - dates
 - whole grain bread
 - banana

# Drinking lots of water at suhoor is important, but not as much as drinking it through out your non-fasting hours.

The Grave is calling......! Listen very very carefully!
 Oh son of Adam! I'm full of darkness so bring with you the light of Salaah.

Please do not keep this reminder to yourself, share with your beloved brothers and sisters Ψ§Ω„Ω„َّΩ‡ُ give us the understanding

THINGS TO BE AVOIDED DURING RAMADHAN

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Shaykh Maher (imam of Harem Makkah) gives some very practical advice here:

He says:

Ideas for the last ten days of Ramadan  :

1. Give 1 dinar in charity every night, so if it falls on laylatul qadr it's as if u gave charity everyday for 84 years.

2. Pray two ra'kaat every night, so if it falls on laylatul qadr it's as if u prayed everyday for 84 years.

3. Read Surah ikhlaas three times a night, so if it falls on laylatul qadr it's as if u read the whole Quran everyday for 84 years.

He then says spread this as you may find it on your account [of good deeds].

Allah make us of the victorious.

Ideas For The Last Ten Ramadhan

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The Horrors Of Hell

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The unbeliever will pray for his death when they sense its heat,

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“And when they are thrown into a narrow place therein bound in chains, they will cry out thereupon for destruction.  (They will be told), ‘Do not cry this Day for one destruction but cry for much destruction.’” (Quran 25:13-14)

Their screams will get louder and they will call onto God hoping He will take them out of Hell:

“And they will cry out therein, ‘Our Lord, remove us; we will do righteousness – other than what we were doing!’” (Quran 35:37)

They will realize theirs sins and the error of stubborn disbelief:

“And they will say, ‘If only we had been listening or reasoning, we would not be among the companions of the Blaze.’  And they will admit their sin, so (it is) alienation for the companions of the Blaze.” (Quran 67:10-11)

Their prayers will be rejected:

“They will say, ‘Our Lord, our wretchedness overcame us, and we were a people astray.  Our Lord, remove us from it, and if we were to return (to evil), we would indeed be wrongdoers.’  He will say, ‘Remain despised therein and do not speak to Me.’” (Quran 23:106-108)

After that, they will call the keepers of Hell asking them to intercede to God on their behalf for reduction in torment:

“And those in the Fire will say to the keepers of Hell, ‘Supplicate your Lord to lighten for us a day from the punishment.’  They will say, ‘Did there not come to you your messengers with clear proofs?’  They will say, ‘Yes.’  They will reply, ‘Then supplicate (yourselves), but the supplication of the disbelievers is not except in error.’” (Quran 40:49-50)

Their will even plead for their own destruction to relieve themselves of the pain:

“And they will call, ‘O Malik, let your Lord put an end to us!’  He will say, ‘Indeed, you will remain.’” (Quran 43:77)

They will be told the punishment will never be reduced, it is eternal:

“Then be patient or impatient – it is all the same for you.  You are only being recompensed for what you used to do.’” (Quran 52:16)

They will weep for a long time:

“So let them laugh a little and then weep much as recompense for what they used to earn.” (Quran 9:82)

They will weep until no tears are left, then that they will weep blood, which will leave its traces as described by the Prophet:

“The people of Hell will be made to weep, and they will weep until they have no tears left.  Then they will weep blood until they have, as it were, channels in their faces, if ships were put in them, they would float.”[Ibn Majah ]

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Translation

"Our Lord! Avert from us the torment of Hell. Verily! Its torment is ever an inseparable, permanent punishment."

Ameen

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The Horrors Of Hell

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_*SADAKA is not only related to MONEY. Infact these things are also considered as SADAKA*_

☝ _1. Dua_


☝ _2. Knowledge._

☝ _3. Advice._

☝ _4. To smile at your Muslim brother._

☝ _5. Help._

☝ _6. Time._

☝ _7. Be happy with your life_

☝ _8. Patience over difficult times._

☝ _9. To advise for good._

☝ _10. To stop from evil._

☝ _11. To talk softly._

☝ _12. To forgive._

☝ _13. To give respect._

☝ _14. To be a part of someones happiness._

☝ _15. To visit the sick._

☝ _16. To remove harmful       things from the path._

☝ _17. To guide       someone on   the right way._

*Forwarding this is also SADAKA*

SADAKA (TITHE)

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Minimum 35 Ways to Respect your Parents. Must read

1. Put away your phone in
    their presence.

2. Pay attention to what they
    are saying.

3. Accept their opinions.

4. Engage in their conversations.

5. Look at them with respect

6. Always praise them.

7. Share good news with
    them.

8. Avoid sharing bad news
    with them.

9. Speak well of their friends
    and loved ones to them.

10. Keep in remembrance
       the good things they did.

11. If they repeat a story,
       listen like it's the first
       time they tell it.

12. Don't bring up painful
       memories from the past.

13. Avoid side conversations
       in their presence.

14. Sit respectfully around
       them.

15. Don't belittle/criticize  
       their opinions and
       thoughts.

16. Avoid cutting them off
       when they speak.

17. Respect their age.

18. Avoid hitting/disciplining
      their grandchildren
      around them.

19. Accept their advice and
      direction.

20. Give them the power of
      leadership when they are
      present.

21. Avoid raising your voice
       at them.

22. Avoid walking in front or
      ahead of them.

23. Avoid eating before them

24. Avoid glaring at them.

25. Fill them with your
      appreciation even when
      they don't think they
      deserve it.

26. Avoid putting your feet  
       up in front of them or
       sitting with your back to
       them.

27. Don't speak ill of them to
      the point where others
      speak ill of them too.

28. Keep them in your
       prayers always possible.

29. Avoid seeming bored or
      tired of them in their
      presence.

30. Avoid laughing at their
      faults/mistakes.

31. Do a task before they ask
      you to.

32. Continuously visit them.

33. Choose your words  
       carefully when speaking  
       with them.

34. Call them by names they
       like.

35. Make them your priority
      above anything.

Parents are treasure on this land and sooner than you think, that treasure will be buried. Appreciate your parents while you still can.
Today lets make lots of  prayers for our beloved parents.
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_*πŸ’ Assalamualaikum*_                          _*Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu πŸ’                                    πŸ Bismillahir Rehmanir Rahim 🍁*_
πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’

         *Ramadan is approaching ...*

πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’  

```If one tries to find out the causes of human misfortunes and failures, in the final analysis one will discover that a human being is a bundle of various needs and a captive of many wants. No spiritual and physical action of his is free from need and want. Morality, which to some extent is concerned with spirituality, when analyzed, is also seen to be based on some kind of need. Therefore all human misfortunes and failures are simply the result of need or want. If a person frees himself of all needs then he becomes an angelic (angel like) being instead of a human being.

No doubt the needs and wants of human beings are vast and endless, but it is worth pondering what and how much are his real needs. He has in his heart a stockpile of desires, a collection of wishes and self-made needs, but he has to ask himself questions whether it is possible for him to live without fancy clothes, luxury houses, decadent foods and extravagant cars. Will he not be able to live if he is devoid of wealth, pomp and glory? There have been people who have given up all their comforts and yet have survived. Prophet Abraham  and Adam, peace be upon them, are held up as examples of Allah's most devoted servants who gave up their kingship, and acquired an exulted spiritual life.

After negating and denying oneself the self-made needs, perhaps the vast assembly of so-called wants will shrink and be confined to a couple of real basic needs, such as food and drink, without which it is not possible to be alive. The physical and spiritual survival of the body depends only on the life-breath which itself is dependent on a few morsels of food and a few sips of water. The truth is that from that point onward any excess in food and drink is merely a desire for excessive pleasure and fun. On this account, if a dividing line is to be drawn separating a human being from an angel, this food and drink will be found to distinguish the two and to be the root of all the differences and distinctions between them. If all human crimes and sins are listed and if the basic reasons of greed, avarice, destruction and murder are sought, the ultimate link will be found in the excessive desire for pleasures and for these two things, namely food and drink.

To be continued...

In Sha Allah```

_*May Allah  ο·» Bless us and guide us in all our affairs*_

_*Aameen*_


_*πŸ’ Assalamualaikum*_                          _*Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu πŸ’                                    πŸ Bismillahir Rehmanir Rahim 🍁*_
πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’

         *Ramadan is approaching ...*

πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’

```Continues...

In order to combat materialistic evils, all the religions of world have made it a primary condition of fasting from food and drinks to various extent. The real object is that a human being might gradually decrease the multiplicity of his needs and by continuous efforts of trying to free himself of excessive desire for power and want of food. All sins and crimes are the end results of these desires. If these desires and wants are lost, then surely he will be able to see a glimpse of the Angelic world in this human world. However, as long as a human being is alive it is impossible for him to avoid food completely, so all nations before have specified only a certain limited periods for abstaining from food. During this period, a human being should avoid all wants which can possibly be avoided and thus try to attain the status of an angelic being for that short while at least. Because the duty of an angel is the obedience and worship of Allah ο·», a human being should also regard this to be as far as possible the object and duty of his own life for that period.

The holy Quran has unveiled all these secrets and truths by one single word 'Taqwa' (self-restraint), and because the purpose of fasting was common to almost all nations before, the Holy Quran has mentioned them also.```

*Fasting is prescribed to you as It was prescribed to those before you, that you may (learn) self-restraint...* ```(Quran 2:183)

The object and purpose of fasting is self-restraint (Taqwa), i.e. to keep one's desires under control and to keep oneself safe from emotional turmoil. From this it is evident that fasting has been made compulsory to work as a spiritual treatment. Proceeding further, the Holy Quran has elucidated further the purpose of fasting in Islam:```

*The month of Ramadan in which was revealed the Quran, a guidance for mankind and clear proofs for the guidance and the criterion (between right and wrong). So whoever of you sights (the crescent on the first night of) the month (of Ramadan i.e. is present at his home), he must observe Saum (fasts) that month, and whoever is ill or on a journey, the same number [of days which one did not observe Saum (fasts) must be made up] from other days. Allah intends for you ease, and He does not want to make things difficult for you. (He wants that you) must complete the same number (of days), and that you must magnify Allah [i.e. to say Takbir (Allahu-Akbar; Allah is the Most Great) on seeing the crescent of the months of Ramadan and  Shawwal] for having guided you so that you may be grateful to Him.*
 ```(Surah Al-Baqara 2, Verse 185)

To be continued...

In Sha Allah```

_*May Allah  ο·» Bless us and guide us in all our affairs*_

*_Aameen_*


_*πŸ’ Assalamualaikum*_                          _*Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu πŸ’                                    πŸ Bismillahir Rehmanir Rahim 🍁*_
πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’

         *Ramadan is approaching ...*

πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’πŸ’’

*The Purpose of Fasting in Islam*

```Continues...

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah ο·Ί  said:```

*When one of you awakes in the morning for fasting, then he should not use obscene language or behave ignorantly. If anyone slanders him or tries to argue with him, he should say: Indeed, I am fasting. Indeed, I am fasting.* ```(Source: Ṣahiḥ Muslim 1151)

In another narration, the Prophet ο·Ί said:```

*Verily, fasting is not only from eating and drinking. Rather, fasting is from vanity and obscenity. If someone abuses you or acts foolish against you, then say: Indeed, I am fasting.* ```(Source:Sahih ibn Hibban 3561, Grade: Sahih)

Saying this is as much a reminder to ourselves as it is to others. When we are tempted to commit sins or engage in bad thoughts while fasting, we should remind ourselves that we are fasting and change our thinking towards something good and beneficial.

If we do not abstain from bad words while fasting as well as sins and bad inward statements, then our fasting has not achieved one of its most important purposes. Allah ο·»   certainly does not need any of us to fast, so we must remember that the benefits our fasting might be nullified by these sins.

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah   ο·Ί said:```

*Whoever does not give up false speech and evil deeds while fasting, then Allah is not in need of his leaving food and drink.* ```(Source:Sahih al-Bukhari  1804)

In another narration, the Prophet ο·Ί said:```

*A person might fast and he gets nothing from his fast but hunger.* ```(Source: Sunan Ibn Majah 1690)

Umar ibn Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said:```

_Fasting is not merely from food and drink. Rather, it is from lies, falsehood, vain talk, and swearing._ ```(Source: Muṣannaf Ibn Abī Shaybah 8683)

In addition to keeping away from sins, we can use the exercise of fasting as a means to develop self-control over our low desires. Fasting generates will power within the heart that can be transferred to other situations in which we need to overcome temptation.
 
To be continued...

In Sha Allah```

_*May Allah  ο·» Bless us and guide us in all our affairs*_

*_Aameen_*
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